Why Do Republicans want Rules enforced " Big Govt " on Gays , Muslims, and Poor people. But not themselves?

Republicans are always complaining about the govt getting in the way, they sit around and cry all day about having to pay taxes, and how regulations are killing business, and Obama is Anti Business because he wants to pay the national debt... They make signs at tea party's about the GOVT leaving people alone. But then they advocate for Government being all up in the face, with regulations, and intrusion, rules, all in the face of Gay people.. They want Government to get in the way of Muslims building a Mosque in NY. They want Government to have the right to Discriminate thru TSA agents at the airport for extra pat downs on Muslims as promoted on Fox News. Republicans also promote big govt for poor people, Right now Fox News and Republicans are pushing for Drug Screen's. Which Will cost billions of dollars to weekly test every welfare, medicaid, and unemployment beneficiary. They want govt to step in and make abortion illegal. If Republicans really wanted small govt they should want it across the board, you can't just want it for yourself, but want it for all of your ideological political opponents. Stop Cherry picking , Small govt is not only Conservative Christians. But everyone else Big govt.